The Challenge of Decision‑Making

When a choice—whether about a job, a relationship, or finances—comes up, many people feel uncertain. In this teaching, Dr. Stanley asks listeners to consider how they normally respond: do they rush, pray, or simply hope for the best?

Submitting to God’s Will

Dr. Stanley emphasizes that true clarity begins with surrender. He explains that when we say, “Lord, above everything else I want what You want,” we open the door for God to guide us. This act of submission, he says, is the first step toward a clear path.

A Six‑Word Pattern for Clarity

To help listeners apply this idea, he presents a concise six‑word pattern:

• Clear the pathway – remove sin or disobedience that clouds judgment.
• Neutral your desires – bring personal preferences to a state of submission.
• Patience – trust God’s timing instead of rushing for instant answers.
• Press – be aware of external and internal pressures that may lead you astray.
• Listen – discern God’s voice through Scripture and prayer.
• Act – move forward once you sense clarity.

He stresses that the pattern is not a formula but a practical reminder of the steps that lead to confident decision‑making.

Patience and Pressure

Dr. Stanley warns that impatience often leads to poor choices. He encourages listeners to pause, ask whether a decision “sounds like God,” and check it against Scripture. He also highlights the danger of both external pressure—friends or circumstances urging quick action—and internal pressure—our own fears of rejection or failure.

By applying the six‑word pattern, listeners can discern God’s direction, wait for His timing, and avoid being swayed by noise.

For the full message, including examples and deeper discussion, listen to the complete audio.